Welcome to your Ai-je des comportements violents ?
Tell my partner what to do or give them orders
Decide how my partner should dress or do their hair
Make important decisions without consulting my partner
Belittle or ridicule my partner, sometimes in front of other people
Criticise the way they raise the children, run the home or cook
Make my partner feel that they are incapable or useless
Not listen when they speak
Ignore my partner to upset or worry them
Shout at them or insult them
Say that it's my partner's fault that I'm violent, that it never used to happen in the past
Make them beg for money or monitor their spending
Not giving them any or enough money for the household
Always wanting to know where my partner is and who they are with, monitoring their calls, mail, etc
Not allowing them to go out alone or preventing them from seeing their close friends and family
Threatening to harm them or to kill myself
Banging on walls, doors or furniture
Breaking things in the house or damaging their belongings
Pushing, shoving, shaking or forcibly restraining my partner
Slapping or hitting my partner
Threatening or hurting them with a knife or weapon
Forcing my partner to watch pornographic material
Forcing them to engage in sexual practices that they do not enjoy
Forcing my partner to have sexual intercourse when they do not want to