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Test – Is my behaviour abusive?

Welcome to your Ai-je des comportements violents ?

Tell my partner what to do or give them orders

Decide how my partner should dress or do their hair

Make important decisions without consulting my partner

Belittle or ridicule my partner, sometimes in front of other people

Criticise the way they raise the children, run the home or cook

Make my partner feel that they are incapable or useless

Not listen when they speak

Ignore my partner to upset or worry them

Shout at them or insult them

Say that it's my partner's fault that I'm violent, that it never used to happen in the past

Make them beg for money or monitor their spending

Not giving them any or enough money for the household

Always wanting to know where my partner is and who they are with, monitoring their calls, mail, etc

Not allowing them to go out alone or preventing them from seeing their close friends and family

Threatening to harm them or to kill myself

Banging on walls, doors or furniture

Breaking things in the house or damaging their belongings

Pushing, shoving, shaking or forcibly restraining my partner

Slapping or hitting my partner

Threatening or hurting them with a knife or weapon

Forcing my partner to watch pornographic material

Forcing them to engage in sexual practices that they do not enjoy

Forcing my partner to have sexual intercourse when they do not want to

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